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Path: bloom-beacon.mit.edu!hookup!swrinde!gatech!usenet.ins.cwru.edu!news.ecn.bgu.edu!mp.cs.niu.edu!fnnews.fnal.gov!usenet From: Marc Mengel <mengel@fnal.gov> Newsgroups: soc.religion.quaker,news.answers,soc.answers Subject: soc.religion.quaker Answers to Frequently Asked Questions Supersedes: <srq_760086012@dcdmwm.fnal.gov> Followup-To: soc.religion.quaker Date: 1 Apr 1994 07:00:12 GMT Organization: Fermi National Accelerator Laboratory Lines: 643 Approved: news-answers-request@MIT.Edu Distribution: world Expires: 15 May 1994 07:00:07 GMT Message-ID: <srq_765183607@dcdmwm.fnal.gov> Reply-To: Marc Mengel <mengel@fnal.gov> NNTP-Posting-Host: dcdmwm.fnal.gov Summary: Assorted answers to questions frequently asked about the Religious Society of Friends (a.k.a. Quakers) in soc.religion.quaker Xref: bloom-beacon.mit.edu soc.religion.quaker:1563 news.answers:17100 soc.answers:1038 Content-type: text/x-usenet-FAQ; version=1.0; title="Quaker-faq" Archive-name: Quaker-faq Last-update: Wed Feb 2 14:40:40 CST 1994 Version: 1.9 In response to various requests in soc.religion.quaker I have compiled the following FAQ answers posting. The history in particular is rather sketchy. This is an evolving document, and corrections are welcomed. This posting is now being automatically sent monthly, and is in Internet Digest FAQ format. Marc ----- 0)Overview 1 Names 1.1 Quakers 1.2 Shakers 2 History 2.1 Origins 2.2 American Friends 2.3 "Programmed" and "Unprogrammed" Meetings 2.4 Worldwide Friends 3 Meetings for Worship 3.1 Traditional/Unprogrammed/Silent Meetings 3.2 Programmed Meetings 3.3 Children at Meeting for Worship 4 Meetings for Business 4.1 Monthly Meetings 4.2 Committees 4.3 Quarterly/Regional Meetings 4.4 Yearly Meetings 5 Beliefs of Friends 5.1 Christianity 5.2 Authority 5.3 Marriage 5.4 War 5.5 Oaths 5.6 The Death Penalty, the Prison System, etc. 5.7 Rituals, sacraments, etc. 6 Terms, Acronyms etc. 7 Speech mannerisms 7.1 Thee and Thou (archaic) 7.2 I have a Concern... 7.3 Days of the Week 7.4 Speaking Truth to Power 8 Where can I find... 8.1 a local Quaker meeting 8.2 Quaker publications 8.3 Quaker email, lists, etc. 9 Bibliography ---- Subject: (1) Names Subject: (1.1) Quakers The term "Quaker" refers to the Religious Society of Friends, which is the proper name of the religion. There are two reputed origins of the term, the first refers to people "quaking" or trembling when feeling moved by the Holy Spirit to speak in Meetings for Worship, the second (and more derogatory) referring to Friends as being cowardly and "quaking" in fear by way of their traditional refusal to participate in wars. Subject: (1.2) Shakers The "Quakers" are occasionally confused with the "Shakers"; the Shakers were actually a "spin-off" of the Quakers, a group who formed a "celibate order" and started communities throughout the United States. The Shakers are quite interesting in their own right, adding speaking in tongues and free-form dancing to the end of a Quaker-style silent meeting. Celibacy, alas, is not hereditary, and there are fewer than 10 Shakers left today. Subject: (2) History Subject: (2.1) Origins The Religious Society of Friends was started in England around 1650, by many people, the most famous being George Fox. They in fact intended to start a movement to unify the splintered Christian churches, rather than to start a separate sect. Many radical groups were formed in England about this time as a result of the turmoil caused by the English Revolution and Civil War, and the repeated changes between Catholicism and Anglicism in England; however most of these disappeared soon after the restoration of the monarchy. Subject: (2.2) American Friends Friends were active in New England almost from the beginning of the Quaker movement. The Puritans of Massachusetts, found Quaker ideas unacceptable and exiled Friends on pain of death. Between 1659 and 1661 one woman and three men were hanged for returning after such banishment. George Fox spent over a year in America in 1672. The Quaker population increased greatly after 1682 when William Penn (who was a Friend) set about the foundation of Pennsylvania and started the city of Philadelphia. Friends in general showed an enlightened attitude to Native Americans, and were also active in the movement against the slave trade. Later, they helped escaped slaves and worked for the abolition of slavery, due in part to the work and ministry of John Woolman (See "Bibliography"). Subject: (2.3) "Programmed" and "Unprogrammed" Meetings During the Revival movement in the 1800's many Friends Meetings were influenced by Revival preachers. Many of these later hired preachers and now hold more "conventional" services, with a preacher, choir, etc. These meetings often call themselves "Quaker Churches" or "Friend's Churches" rather than "Quaker Meetings" or "Friends Meetings." Some such branches of Quakerism refer to themselves as "Evangelical Friends." Subject: (2.4) Worldwide Friends Many of the Friends elsewhere in the world (besides England and America) are more of the "Programmed" meeting variety. There are large numbers of Friends in various countries around the world, especially Kenya. Subject: (3) Meetings for Worship Subject: (3.1) Traditional/Unprogrammed/Silent Meetings Silent Meetings for Worship are quite a bit different from most organized religious services. Basically those attending the meeting sit silently, trying to listen to the (Holy) Spirit , until someone is moved by the Spirit to speak. The person so moved generally stands, says what they have to say, and sits down. Meetings like this generally run for about an hour, and it is not out of the ordinary for a meeting to be silent the whole hour. It is customary to wait a few minutes between speakers to allow time for consideration of what they have said. It is considered bad form to "debate" a topic or otherwise argue a point at Meeting for Worship. More subtle forms of disagreement, such as telling a related story and how it made you feel bad, etc. are occasionally employed. Subject: (3.2) Programmed Meetings A Quaker Church service is very similar in format to most Methodist or Baptist services, if a little more mellow. However members of the congregation rising to speak, while uncommon, is not unheard of, and there are often periods of silence. Subject: (3.3) Children at Meeting for Worship Many visitors to meeting, especially those to unprogrammed/silent meetings, worry a lot about their children and whether the children are being quiet enough. They should relax :-). While it would be appropriate to take your child out of meeting if the child is screaming or being loud for long periods, the occasional noises of small children are generally welcomed. Some paper and crayons, or a book to read for older children is often helpful, too. Most children, especially those of visitors, have a tough time sitting silently for a full hour. Fortunately most Meetings have some sort of "First Day School" or "Sunday school" for children. If you see an adult rising after the start of Meeting and all the children filing out, they're probably headed for the First Day School. Friends are generally quite tolerant of babies and their noises. It is considered normal at most unprogrammed meetings to breast feed babies during meeting. Subject: (4) Meetings for Business Groups of Friends that conduct business as a group are generally named by how often they meet, and the period between meetings is generally proportional to the size of the group. (i.e. a group that meets monthly is a "Monthly Meeting," a group that meets quarterly is a "Quarterly Meeting," etc.) Meetings for business (or more properly Meetings for Worship with a Concern for Business) are held in the manner of a silent meeting for worship, although there is a Clerk who attempts to find and record the collectively acquired insight of the Meeting. All decisions are made by finding the "Sense of the Meeting," which is a statement that feels right to everyone in the meeting. Subject: (4.1) Monthly Meetings Local meetings that hold services generally hold meetings for business once a month, and are called "Monthly Meetings." The Monthly Meeting usually deals with membership, marriages, paying rent, etc for the meeting facilities and/or real estate, etc. Subject: (4.2) Committees Since most Unprogrammed Friends meetings don't have a paid staff of any kind most activities are performed by various Committees of the membership. Most meetings have at least 10 committees of varying description to maintain the building, make or organize food, watch the finances, send out a newsletter, etc. Committees often recommend items to the Monthly meeting for action. Subject: (4.3) Quarterly/Regional Meetings Larger regional groups of Friends are usually groups of Monthly Meetings, which meet quarterly, and are often referred to as Quarterly Meetings. Representatives from the various Monthly Meetings generally attend such meetings. Quarterly meetings are often places to discuss issues in preparation for Yearly Meetings. Subject: (4.4) Yearly Meetings Even larger groups of Friends are also usually groups of Monthly Meetings representing several states, and are referred to as Yearly Meetings. Representatives from the various Monthly Meetings generally attend such meetings. Some meetings are members of more than one Yearly Meeting. There is no overall central organization which claims all Friends as members that I'm aware of. Subject: (5) Beliefs of Friends Friends' beliefs are a little hard to quantify, since Friends do not believe in having a fixed Creed or Dogma, but rather in seeking for the leadings of God within ourselves. Some generalizations are possible however: Subject: (5.1) Christianity The Religious Society of Friends is a Christian organization, in the sense that it is originally based on the teachings of Jesus in the New Testament. You will in general find some disagreement among Friends about whether there was a Virgin Birth, whether various miracles were supernatural occurances or religious embellishments, whether Jesus was The Son of God, or just one of God's children etc. You will in general find agreement that those differences are not important :-). We *can* all agree that certain things "feel Right," that there is a part of us that knows what right and wrong are, and that that part of us is in some sense God. Many Friends are or have been involved in the Unitarian Universalist movement, and people occasionally refer to the _Tao Te Ching_, the _Koran_, etc. at Meetings as well as various translations of the _Bible_. (and sometimes _Winnie The Pooh_... :-)) Subject: (5.2) Authority Friends generally have held that people are people; no one is more "holy" than anyone else, (except *maybe* Christ, (see "Christianity")) and that everyone has equal access to the part of God in all of us. Thus Friends have traditionally refused to use honorifics like "Your Honor," "Your Eminence," etc. The only authority a Meeting has is that its members all agree that its actions are "right." This is of course the Highest Form of authority to a Friend. This has a lot to do with Friends' beliefs about Marriage, War, etc. (below) and the reason Friends do not have "priests" that perform blessings, marriages, etc. Barclay writes (from Dean Freiday's edition, on p. 391): 2. It is not lawful for Christians to kneel before or prostrate themselves to any man, or to bow the body or uncover the head. The previous point also makes the same point as to "word honor" in court, specifically the use of terms including "Your Honor." On p. 402 there is a more extensive discussion of Kneeling, Bowing, and Removing the Hat, with some Biblical references. A footnote quotes G. Fox's Journal, as follows: "When the Lord sent me forth into the world, he forbade me to put of my hat to any, high or low...neither might I bow or scrape with my leg to any one." G. Fox, Journal, Bi-Centenary Edition, London, Headley, 1902, v. 1, p. 38. Finally, p. 404 remarks, "Many of us have been badly beaten and buffeted about, and we have even been imprisoned for several months for no other reason except that we would not uncover our heads or bow our bodies to satisfy the proud and unreasonable whims of egotistical men. Certainly the innocent practice of standing still and erect without taking off our hats any more than our shoes does not show as much rudeness as the beatings and knocking about we have had because of our practice." Subject: (5.3) Marriage Officially, two Friends marry each other under the care of the meeting, but no person "marries" them, God does. Most meetings reserve the right to refuse to take a marriage under their care if they feel the couple is not "clear" about their intention to marry. Generally all present at the ceremony sign the wedding certificate. There have been a *few* meetings who have performed same-gender marriages; and in one or two states for a while some of them were even legal. This is a topic of much discussion in many meetings, and is not something you can assume any given meeting considers okay. Also to my knowledge the states whose marriage laws had "Quaker loopholes" allowing Meetings to perform same gender marriages have fixed them. On the other hand, several states are now considering allowing same-gender marriages... Subject: (5.4) War Friends have generally refused to participate in wars, in particular refused the draft, since the mid to late 1600s. As the "George Fox Song" says: "If we give you a rifle will you fight for the Lord? But you can't kill the Devil with a gun or a sword." Friends groups like the FCNL lobby heavily against military involvement and military spending along with their other priorities. Friends are also concerned about finding causes of war in our daily lives -- do you own something that someone in a foreign country would kill to have? Subject: (5.5) Oaths Friends traditionally refuse to take oaths of any kind, including oaths of fealty, pledges of allegiance, etc. (Read the book of Matthew if you wonder why :-)) Subject: (5.6) The Death Penalty, the Prison System, etc. "Judge not, lest ye be judged," "Let that person among you who is without sin cast the first stone," ... Need I say more? Okay, well actually Friends are very active in anti-death-penalty and prison reform/abolition groups in most areas. Subject: (5.7) Rituals, sacraments, etc. Friends generally conduct very simple weddings and memorial services and do not outwardly observe baptism or the Lord's Supper. Friends seek to experience the sacraments in an inward and continuing manner without symbols. The general feeling is that rituals tend to become more important than the meaning they are intended to convey. Subject: (6) Terms, Acronyms etc. AFSC: American Friends Service Committee -- a national organization which works on projects and programs reflecting traditional Friends' issues. Clearness: When it is clear to you that something is right. Clearness Committee: A group formed to help someone decide if something is right. Often formed to interview a couple contemplating marriage for example. Faith and Practice: Title of a book published by several Yearly Meetings which describes "standard" practices for accepting new members, holding business meetings, etc. as well as a lot of the philosophy behind them. A good source of Queries, and good Quakerly form letters. (See "Bibliography") There are many versions, most notably the London Yearly Meeting and Philadelphia Yearly Meeting versions. (London Yearly Meeting also has a separate "Church Government" volume). FCNL: Friends Committee on National Legislation -- a Lobbying group that works for legislation reflecting traditional Friends' issues. FGC/FUM: Friends General Conference/Friends United Meeting, are national organizations of Friends that provides support services for Monthly and Yearly Meetings and which organize yearly national gatherings. FGC's membership is predomin- ately unprogrammed meetings, while FUM's membership is predominately programmed meetings. FWCC: Friends World Committee on Consultation is sort of like FGC or FUM, but on a worldwide scale. Light: Friends often speak of the Light Within, which is a term for that of God in each of us. Query: A good question to ask yourself, often from some published source, often a leading question; like "Do you seek to find that of God in those around you, especially those you disagree with?" Subject: (7) Speech mannerisms Subject: (7.1) Thee and Thou (archaic) Among early Quakers it was traditional to call everyone and anyone thee and thou, including royalty and church officials, who were to be referred to in the plural in deference to their official Holier than Thou position. This practice continued for some time after English speakers started calling *everyone* "you" rather than "thou." Only a few (usually older) Friends use thee and thou anymore. Subject: (7.2) I have a Concern... Is the traditional method of bringing up an issue to a Meeting for business. A much stronger statement than it sounds like, since one unsettled concern about something will stop it from being done. Usage: "I have a concern that replacing this mailbox will hurt the baby birds nesting in the current one..." Subject: (7.3) Days of the Week Early Friends made a big deal out of removing names of Mythology figures (Greek, Roman, and Norse Gods) and such from their speech. Thus the days of the week are referred to as "First Day" through "Seventh Day" instead of Sunday through Saturday, and "First Month" through "Twelfth Month" instead of January through December. This notation is common in writings like _The Journal of John Woolman_ and other classic Friends writings. Modern Friends are often not so picky, but Minutes of business meetings, etc. often still refer to the days numerically, and it is invariably called "First Day School" not "Sunday School" at Quaker meetings in the US. This can lead to some tricky phrasing when talking about the second Sunday of May, which is of course the second First Day of Fifth Month... Subject: (7.4) Speaking Truth to Power Refers to the general concept of the child asking the Emperor "why aren't you wearing any clothes?" Subject: (7.5) Holding in the Light Thinking of someone or something while worshiping, in effect praying for them silently. Subject: (8) Where can I find... Subject: (8.1) a local Quaker meeting One of the best places to look is in your local telephone directory; look for: Localtown Fellowship of Friends Localtown Friends Meeting/Church Friends Meeting/Church of Localtown Friends Fellowship of Localtown Quaker Meeting of Localtown Localtown Quaker Meeting (with local town names) in your local white pages, or in the yellow pages under "Churches". If you're really stuck, try contacting: Peggy Morscheck, Director Quaker Information Center 1501 Cherry Street Philadelphia, PA 19102 (215) 241-7024 or Friends Journal 1501 Cherry Street, Philadelphia PA 19102-1497 USA (215) 241 7155 They probably have a meeting in your area on their mailing list. They can also get you free introductory issues of Friends Journal. In the UK, try: Quaker Home Service Committee Friends House Euston Road London NW1 2BJ (+44 71 387 3601) Or drop a note to Friends World Committee 1506 Race Street Philadelphia PA 19102 USA and ask them for a contact at your nearest Yearly Meeting, who can probably point you to a nearby Monthly Meeting. Subject: (8.2) Quaker publications Here are some bookstores that specialize in Quaker publications. Pendle Hill Bookstore Box J Wallingford PA 19086 USA (215) 566 4514 800-742-3150 Friends United Press 101-A Quaker Hill Dr. Richmond IN 47374 1-800-537-8838 Friends General Conference Bookstore 1216 Arch St., 2B, Philadelphia PA 19107 1-800-966-4556 Friends House, Euston Road, LONDON. NW1 2BJ 071 387 3601 (+44 71 387 3601 international) Subject: (8.3) Quaker mailing lists, etc: Quaker-L or Quaker-P, subscribe by mailing a message with "subscribe Quaker-L <my-real name>" to listserv@vmd.cso.uiuc.edu (Quaker-P is mainly peace issues, Quaker-L is the general list). Read soc.religion.quaker on USENET news. Subject: (9) Bibliography /* Written 3:44 pm Nov 9, 1992 by jsax@igc.apc.org in igc:gen.quaker */ /* ---------- "BIBLIOGRAPHY OF QUAKER READINGS" ---------- */ QUAKER BIBLIOGRAPHY: A SHORT LIST FOR THE SEEKER Revised November 1992 by Joel GAzis-SAx * FRIENDS FOR 300 YEARS, Howard Brinton, Pendle Hill, 1952. Combines history and interpretation in an excellent single volume on the essentials of Quakerism. * GUIDE TO QUAKER PRACTICE, Howard Brinton, Pendle Hill pamphlet #20. * THE FAITH AND PRACTICE OF QUAKERS, Rufus M. Jones, Doran, N.Y., 1938. * QUAKER SPIRITUALITY, ed. Douglas Steere, Paulist Press, 1984. * BARCLAY'S APOLOGY IN MODERN ENGLISH, Dean Friday, editor, 1967. * THE AMAZING FACT OF QUAKER WORSHIP, George H. Gorman, Swarthmore Lecture, 1973, Friends Home Service Committee, London. * BEYOND MAJORITY RULE (VOTELESS DECISIONS IN THE RELIGIOUS SOCIETY OF FRIENDS), Michael J. Sheeran, S.J., Philadelphia Yearly Meeting of Religious Society of Friends, 1983. * UNMASKING THE IDOLS: A JOURNEY AMONG FRIENDS, Douglas Gwyn, Friends United Press, Richmond, Indiana, 1989. * WHAT IS QUAKERISM?: A PRIMER, George T. Peck, Pendle Hill Pamphlet #277. * THE QUAKERS OR OUR NEIGHBORS, THE FRIENDS, William J. Whalen, Friends General Conference, Philadelphia, 1984. * FAITH AND PRACTICE: A QUAKER GUIDE TO CHRISTIAN DISCIPLINE, Pacific Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends. * FAITH AND PRACTICE: A BOOK OF CHRISTIAN DISCIPLINE, Philadelphia Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends. * CHRISTIAN FAITH AND PRACTICE IN THE EXPERIENCE OF THE SOCIETY OF FRIENDS, London Yearly Meeting. * THE BEGINNINGS OF QUAKERISM, William C. Braithwaite, Rowntree Series of Quaker Histories. * PORTRAIT IN GREY (A SHORT HISTORY OF THE QUAKERS), John Punshon, Quaker Home Service, London, 1984. * THE QUIET REBELS: THE STORY OF THE QUAKERS IN AMERICA, Margaret Hope Bacon, New Society Publishers, Philadelphia, 1985. includes an introduction "The Quaker Contribution to Nonviolent Action." * THE QUAKER PEACE TESTIMONY: 1660 TO 1914, Peter Brock, Sessions Book Trust, York, 1990. * THE JOURNAL OF GEORGE FOX. * THE JOURNAL OF JOHN WOOLMAN. * APOCALYPSE OF THE WORD, Douglas Gwyn, Friends United Press (study guide available) * A TESTAMENT OF DEVOTION, Thomas R. Kelly, Harper and Bros., NY, 1941. * THERE IS A SPIRIT (SONNETS INSPIRED BY JAMES NAYLER), Kenneth Boulding, Fellowship Publications, 1945. * FRIENDLY STORY CARAVAN, Anna P. Broomell, Pendle Hill Publications. * A GUIDE FOR FRIENDS ON CONSCIENTIOUS OBJECTION TO WAR, Ben Richmond, Friends United Meeting 1991 * NEW CALL FOR PEACEMAKERS (STUDY GUIDE), Faith and Life Press, Newton, Kansas, 1979. * BIBLICAL PACIFISM: A PEACE CHURCH PERSPECTIVE, Dale W. Brown, Brethren Press, Elgin, Ill., 1986.